One of the most common questions we hear from parents is:
“Does my child need a formal diagnosis to get an EHCP?”
Or:
“Will going private help us get the right support faster?”
It’s easy to feel like without a label, your child won’t be taken seriously. And sadly, in many cases, that’s what parents are told—by schools, by professionals, even by local authorities.
But here’s the truth:
An EHCP is about needs, not labels.
Legally, your child does not need a diagnosis to be assessed for or receive an Education, Health and Care Plan.
The EHCP should be built around:
- What your child is struggling with,
- What is (and isn’t) working in their education,
- And what provision is necessary for them to make progress.
A diagnosis can help clarify those needs—but it is not a legal requirement.
What matters most is evidence: observations, school reports, assessments, and your own input as a parent.
So… Is a Private Diagnosis Worth It?
This depends on your situation.
Going private can:
- Speed up a process that’s taking years on the NHS,
- Give you clearer language to advocate for support,
- Or unlock understanding and peace of mind for your family.
But it won’t guarantee an EHCP, and it can be expensive—often £800 to £2,000+ per assessment.
If you go private, choose professionals who understand the EHCP process and will write clear, needs-focused reports with specific recommendations. That way, they can actually help inform the plan—not just give a label.
What Should an EHCP Focus On?
Too many EHCPs get stuck listing diagnoses without really tackling what your child needs in daily life.
What matters most is:
- What does your child struggle with right now?
- What’s working well? What’s falling apart?
- What specific support would help them thrive?
Those are the questions that shape a strong EHCP. Not just what your child “has”, but what they need.
At AskEllie, we’ve supported hundreds of families—some with multiple diagnoses, some still fighting to be heard—and what we’ve learned is this:
A diagnosis might open doors, but it’s your child’s lived experience that should shape their support.
You can get guidance, templates, and support with EHCPs (with or without a diagnosis) at AskEllie.co.uk — come by and see us.
You don’t need a label to be valid.
And your child doesn’t need one to deserve support.
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